The Untold Story : Sometimes its not you who are always at fault at the end of the day, but the other person. Need to satisfied much, u keep on blaming yourself in hoping the other person realize their mistake.
We all have at least one. We create it during adolescence, and thereafter it manifests as a lifelong character flaw or personality defect.
We forge this bit of our personality initially as a weapon, or at least a shield, to “protect” us as we emerge into the adult world.
- Self-Deprecation (belittling/diminishing/undervaluing oneself)
- Self-Destruction (sabotaging/punishing/harming oneself)
- Martyrdom (reacting as if persecuted/victimised/oppressed)
- Stubbornness (resisting change in one’s life)
- Greed (selfish overindulgence, over-consumption)
- Arrogance (inflating/exalting/overvaluing oneself)
- Impatience (reacting as though being sabotaged/obstructed)
Note how they can be arranged in pairs (plus one in the middle):